This is a theory that I am considering building into more of a step-by-step strategy for others.
One of the things that wings I’ve hung out with have trouble with is the whole concept of taking the conversation with a woman from a mild nature… to a sexual nature. For me it’s been fairly easy because I’ve always been able to bring up topics that hook women into talking about sex FIRST. This is a key factor for me because once they bring up sex, the doors fly wide open for me to be able to talk about it. Because their minds go there first, they can’t accuse me of being the only one who wants to fuck.
One of the best ways I’ve been doing this lately in the comfort phase is with The Question Game. It’s so easy to get her talking about sex and as a result get her aroused. I start out with mild questions and then steadily escalate the questions to a sexual nature.
Here are the questions (in escalating order) I’ve been using:
“If my friends were coming over for dinner, what kinds of things would you cook to impress them?”
“What’s a secret that you haven’t told any of your friends or few of them know about?”
“If you could change something about yourself physically, like wake up the next morning and it’s changed, what would it be?”
“If you could wake up tomorrow with one thing in your life changed, what would it be?”
“What’s the most meaningful compliment you’ve ever gotten?”
“What the worst insult you’ve ever gotten?”
“What’s the sexiest food for a date?”
“What’s your favorite body part on a guy / girl?”
“What do you think about the male body hair? Shave, wax, or trim?”
“Which do you prefer; a thong, g-string, or granny panties?”
“What’s the sexiest piece of clothing you own?”
“What is your most erogenous zone? Ears? Knees? Thighs?”
“How old were you when you lost your virginity?”
“Have you ever had a one-night stand?”
“What would give you more pleasure, feathers or ice?”
“Have you ever been with a girl?”
“Have you ever gone down on a girl?”
“Where’s the craziest / exciting place you’ve had sex? (Besides your ass.)”
“Where do you most fantasize about having sex in the future?”
“Do you like being dominant or submissive?”
“What’s your favorite position?”
“Are you a moaner or a screamer?”
“Have you ever had a squirting orgasm before?”
“Do you like dirty talk, small talk, or no talking at all?”
“What’s is the one sexual fantasy that you think about the most?”
“Would you like to kiss me?”