For the last month I’ve been keeping an eye on what happens around me when I get on the dance floor. Last week when I was out with a wing and we got pulled on the dance floor by a real cutie.
My wing and I are always coming off as fun, outgoing guys and oftentimes in our own world. This seems to create attention and attraction from women immediately around us. That, eye contact and good BL seemed to get the cutie to ask me to the dance floor.
While on the dance floor I started doing some oldschool moves as demonstrations for the group I was dancing with and trying to get them to do them as well. Basically acting silly and demonstrating that I have some moves.
I noticed other women around us with other guys checking us (guys) out with “the look” and a smile on their faces. You know that look of “if I wasn’t sitting here with this guy and if you came to talk to me I’d give you a shot.”
My wing has told my many times that my dancing ability is a DHV. I’ve never really taken it seriously, but my attitude is changing.
Will Smith had a record back in the day about dumb dancing. It was basically about making fun of current dance trends, acting stupid, having fun, being in your own world, and not caring what anyone else thinks around you. I use to do this back in the day and as I think back to it, it created attraction without saying a word. I just didn’t have all the inner game back then to jump on the opportunities.
I’ve also battled people playfully while on the dance floor. This gets attention and everyone around starts watching, looking and smiling. But if you battle, you better be good or be funny. I’m gonna start booty bumping and battling women.
Peace out!