I posted this in the Los Angeles Yahoo board about a year ago when first getting involved in “the community” and want to post it here because it may be usefull if you want to approach someone on a dance floor.
I got B.S. from a few wussies for mentioning my target’s name, so I’ve left it out. What I will say is that she was in the news over 10 years ago when a famous football player murdered her sister. “If it doesn’t fit, you must acquit!” Anyways, here it is:
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Last night my wings and I went out on the town looking to practice our game. The first club we went to in Newport Beach was playing bull shit games by telling us that there were too many guys in the club and we had to wait in line. There was no one else in the fuckin’ line but us! So naturally we got pissed off and rolled out. Luckily for me.
Our next stop was one of our regular spots in Laguna Beach. As we walk down the street, we see at least 10 cop cars with their lights a blazin’. Wouldn’t you know our spot was closed due to a huge fight that happened before we got there. Luckily for me.
Our next stop was The White House down the street… Fully packed. Next stop, the Holliday Inn’s Bamboo… Dead. Next stop Club M a few doors down. The music was good (hip-hop), the women where gorgeous, and there were plenty of them. As I’m looking around, I see someone who looks very familiar. I think to myself, “Fuck! She looks a lot like ____. (The dead wife of ________) Hey, didn’t she have a sister? Wholly shit… It is her sister. And she’s not bad for an older woman.” I see that there are a few guys that are dancing with her, but you could tell by their body language and they way they were interacting that they weren’t “with her”.
There is a very common occurrence that has been happening in clubs for several years now. Wusses that don’t have enough game to open their mouths, simply go up and start dancing next to or behind women and never say a thing. I know what they expect. They expect the woman to be so turned on by his “dance of love” that she’ll just start making out with him right there on the dance floor. I call these guys “Wussy Satellites.” (She is the sun and you are a worthless orbiting moon.) Don’t ever do this. Of all the women I talk to, they hate this shit. It’s totally wussy and beta male behavior. Women like a man that has enough balls and respect to walk up to them and ask to engage in the act of fake sex.
Anyway, there was a guy doing this and I simply walked up to her and said “You two look like you need partners. We’d like to dance with you.” She repaid “Sure.” Wussy Satellite blown out with two simple sentences and some balls. With simple acknowledgement, I was in. I didn’t want to wait for some chance that the D.J. would play a song she didn’t like so she’s get off the dance floor so I could use an opinion opener or something. So I went direct. (I use both.)
In my opinion, women go to dance clubs to have fun. When I see most guys dancing with women, they’re not entertaining the woman at all or having fun with them. Most guys try go grind the shit out of the girls leg or ass in the attempt to turn her on. My thinking is that women are not wired that way, so I try to entertain them, get them laughing, and do some light kino. I try to create a fun and light emotional connection first. So, I began to bust on guys who couldn’t dance. This brings up a point… I don’t devote all my attention to the girl. I’m looking around about half the time. I even comment on other women, like the go-go dancers there who were dressed in almost nothing and had on 10-inch platform shoes. I would look at her, smile, I complimented her on her shoes, told her that I have a thing for women that wear nice shoes, she said she has a thing for buying nice shoes, then she said “What’s your name?” Bingo!
Because of the load music and the fact that I want to be fun and entertaining, I don’t try to hold a conversation on the dance floor. When we weren’t talking and a slower type song came on, I stuck out my hands, she grabbed them and we started sort of salsa dancing. This is great for kino. I even tried the thing I saw on a DYD video where you cross your arms, put her arms behind your neck, and bring them down across your chest. She loved it. We had to of danced and chit-chatted about B.S. for about 30 minutes until she had to go to the bathroom. I’ve had success dancing with woman all night (that means they are really into you when they don’t leave) and I’ve had success ending the dance and dancing again later. I said, “Well listen, we’re going to be around. Come get me when you want to dance again.” I find that if a woman is interested, chances are she’ll come get you. Some may not, but they remember that you are confident and not desperate to follow them everywhere they go.
After she didn’t return for a while, I decided to look for her. I had a feeling she would be in the V.I.P. area, which was true. I could have run the cube or some other comfort building routine, but I couldn’t get to her. I figured I would just wait until she got on the dance floor again. After a while, I spotted her on the dance floor. I didn’t want to just go right up to her again. I wanted her to come to me, so I positioned myself in proximity and displayed alpha body language. It worked. She come over to me and said she looked for me but couldn’t find me and to come dance because they were leaving soon. I did. After a few songs, they were done and decided to leave.
“I really had a good time with you tonight. You seem very interesting. We should continue this another time.”, I said. That’s when she volunteered her card. Then I said, “Is this your work number or something?” She said yes, but if she’s not there it’s forwarded to her cell phone. I think that’s a good sign. I then told her that we should get together for coffee something, which she agreed. Her and her friends then left and my wing gave the acknowledgement of a good job.
I never once said “You look familiar.” or “Aren’t you ______ famous sister of…” or anything like that. I could see that other people were staring at her. I just wanted her to have a good time without acknowledgement of her status. I credit that to Papa’s post of sarging Paris Hilton. I was simply glad I found this community so my “natural” abilities could resurface again.
Anyway, I hope you guys can pick up a little from this interaction. I’m excited to see where things go from here.