I originally wasn’t going to write this field report because I didn’t think I could put anything into words that someone could learn from.
But then I though about how odd it seemed to me that 2 of the 4 girls I’ve pulled into bathrooms and a stairwell (this past weekend at APB’s birthday bash) have said that they’ve never felt such a strong attraction for someone so quickly. In reality they said “chemistry”, which to me is a step above. (We all know how much more calibrated women are than men.) We’ve all heard that not excepting a girl’s shit tests and kind of being cocky (and of course funny) can create attraction. But “chemistry”? Just something that made me think “Hmmmmmm. Interesting.”
Disclosure: I haven’t fucked a girl in a bathroom yet. (Or a stairwell.) I’ve gotten a hand job once from a girl who was on the rag and have had BJs 3 times. One while she was sitting on the toilet. 😉
The thing is… this kind of attraction doesn’t happen consistently for me. Some women just get offended and pissed off. For instance when I was out with Sight last week.
If I knew the exact calibration for this shit, I’d be fucking right now and not posting this FR. Then again, maybe I’m expecting too much.
Now back to the stairwell pull this weekend…
I think the first keys to the pull was taking the conversation sexual and then taking advantage of the window of opportunity that opened at the exact moment she said something about us having kinky sex. I just grabbed her hand, said “Come on.”, and headed toward the bathroom. We got halfway there and she chickened out.
The second key was continuing to try to get her more and more horny so that she gives in to her excitement. I use this a lot for LMR. Now that I think about it, I don’t think I’ve ever used a freezeout.
For example… if a girl stops me or from putting my hand down her pants, I should have already found her weak spot (her neck or nipples for example), have hit it already, so I hit it hard again. Once she starts showing signs of really getting turned on, I might go to rubbing her clit through the outside of her pants. When she starts moaning and bucking her hips, I’ll go for the hand down the pants again. This movement isn’t slow. It’s more of a “I got to touch you now” move.
Once the pants are off, it’s over! 90% of the time this works because the girl gets soooooo turned on that her mind and body want more. This has gotten me laid many, many times after getting some kind of resistance. The thing is you have to know what spots usually turn girls on and then find the best ones for that particular girl you’re with. (Just another perspective on LMR from a guy who was “a natural” before getting into this game.)
This is what happened after the stairwell girl stopped me from pulling her to the bathroom. We moved by some empty booths, I kissed her for a while, got her hot, and then while we were standing there kissing I slid my hand down her pants. I also put her hand on my dick. (Another spike in horniness.) The fact that we were both doing that while people were walking by turned her on too. I escalated the dirty talk from “Your pussy feels so good?” and “People are walking by while I’m fingering you right now.” to “I want to fuck you so bad.” Once I got confirmation out of her mouth that she wanted to put my dick in her mouth while looking up at me and that she wanted to fuck me too… I grabbed her hand again and started walking toward the bathroom.
We ended up in the stairwell because I saw a door that said “exit.” I knew being on the 51st floor, no one in their right mind would walk down 51 flights of stairs. And I was right.
I sat down on the stairs and she went to work. She wouldn’t fuck me because she said she was with the first guy she ever really wanted to be committed to. “But we have such chemistry though.”, she said. I guess giving a stranger oral sex isn’t cheating.
For you guys who like opinion openers, here’s a new one… (of course throwing it over the shoulder) “Hey guys, I need a quick female opinion. Is oral sex cheating if it happens in Vegas and stays in Vegas?”
I hope you learned somethin bitches!
Peace.