Comments on: Is The Pickup Artist Dead? http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/is-the-pickup-artist-dead/ The adventures of Sexual Chocolate PUA Sat, 03 Jul 2010 05:33:03 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Prophecyonall http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/is-the-pickup-artist-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Prophecyonall Wed, 09 Jun 2010 16:44:41 +0000 http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/?p=521#comment-40 Well, mystery method is just one frame, in my opinion. And still, lot of things like emotional progression model, catstring theory are still very valuable.You know there were guys like David X, In10se, Hypnotica, Steve P who get laid A LOT, without any mystery method. Here in eastern europe most are not attracted to feminine guys, but still we can use mystery method because nobody knows that, but i only think that thinking about routines a not about principles is just still thinking in a box. Well, mystery method is just one frame, in my opinion. And still, lot of things like emotional progression model, catstring theory are still very valuable.You know there were guys like David X, In10se, Hypnotica, Steve P who get laid A LOT, without any mystery method. Here in eastern europe most are not attracted to feminine guys, but still we can use mystery method because nobody knows that, but i only think that thinking about routines a not about principles is just still thinking in a box.

]]> By: lewis http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/is-the-pickup-artist-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-29 lewis Mon, 08 Feb 2010 21:04:34 +0000 http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/?p=521#comment-29 I honestly think its who the men are that is the problem or the paridimes they live by , its the nice guy which most men entering the community are to a T that is the issue of them being bad with women . In the book no more mr nice guy or as the community calles it AFC it explains lots of things that nice guys do and it is exactly like most men on the forums i can see thats the problem their " niceguys " . If the community focused on changing mens beliefs etc . A number one trait of the nice guy is seeking womens approval , well once you approve of yourself and accept yourself as you are your alot more secure in yourself . The community stuff is telling men who they are isent good enougth and that they have to behave in a certain way because themselves isent what women want alot of it proved to be a hinderance to me and caused me more issues than ever i went from believing women wanted me to feeling useless screw the community i say its not the right direction , change the guys paradimes and beliefs and their perspectives is all whats needed , im really comfortable in myself now i accepted who i am and approved of myself . Yeh so innerwork is the way these techniques are to restricting for most people ecspecially left brained smart people . I honestly think its who the men are that is the problem or the paridimes they live by , its the nice guy which most men entering the community are to a T that is the issue of them being bad with women . In the book no more mr nice guy or as the community calles it AFC it explains lots of things that nice guys do and it is exactly like most men on the forums i can see thats the problem their ” niceguys ” . If the community focused on changing mens beliefs etc . A number one trait of the nice guy is seeking womens approval , well once you approve of yourself and accept yourself as you are your alot more secure in yourself . The community stuff is telling men who they are isent good enougth and that they have to behave in a certain way because themselves isent what women want alot of it proved to be a hinderance to me and caused me more issues than ever i went from believing women wanted me to feeling useless screw the community i say its not the right direction , change the guys paradimes and beliefs and their perspectives is all whats needed , im really comfortable in myself now i accepted who i am and approved of myself . Yeh so innerwork is the way these techniques are to restricting for most people ecspecially left brained smart people .

]]> By: Palwinder http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/is-the-pickup-artist-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-28 Palwinder Mon, 25 Jan 2010 17:08:29 +0000 http://sexualchocolatefactory.com/?p=521#comment-28 Nice article. Even though I have never been and never intend to be a pick-up artist (or rookie) for that matter, but I do love to learn and implement a lot of methodology that is taught by various innovators like Zan, Deida and Hypnotica. I have never liked the idea of using a canned opener or a tactic as I believe that if I am not congruent with what I say, a smart person/woman (and I only like to choose smart) can see right through all the bullshit and tell that I am trying to do or be something that I can\'t or am not. I believe instead that if I get in touch with my inner self and know what I want then I can work on how I can express it in the best way that I like. This way anything that I say is passionate because it is actually what I AM saying. I am being present, I am in my reality and I am welcoming her into my reality. I see it as a sensual dance (expressing what I feel is the most important part of fore-play and it never is limited to bedroom) and I am leading her all the way holding her hand. I am involved with her and I am felling what she is expressing as well. All the tactics described in the GAME are not bad but I look onto them as the experiences of the particular individuals on their road to growth. All the people mentioned in the GAME have moved on to bigger and better things and I think that is the message. A true pickup-artist (or as I like to say LOVER) will never die because he can just walk into any situation and have a great conversation with anyone - not just a pretty woman - but even with an 80 year old and leave them with higher energy and enthusiasm than they were before they met him. That is the essence of charisma and if I have that I can be put in any situation, I can have a great time and people will love to hang around me. I may not be the pimp in the room with 20 hotties hangin\' off my arms, but I will be the one with whom people would genuinely love to connect and women will geuninely love to be open without any head games. I will be the one who will leave them with memories that will bring smile to their faces and whose fragrance will turn them on even months and years later :) Just my two cents. Palwinder :) Nice article. Even though I have never been and never intend to be a pick-up artist (or rookie) for that matter, but I do love to learn and implement a lot of methodology that is taught by various innovators like Zan, Deida and Hypnotica. I have never liked the idea of using a canned opener or a tactic as I believe that if I am not congruent with what I say, a smart person/woman (and I only like to choose smart) can see right through all the bullshit and tell that I am trying to do or be something that I can\’t or am not. I believe instead that if I get in touch with my inner self and know what I want then I can work on how I can express it in the best way that I like. This way anything that I say is passionate because it is actually what I AM saying. I am being present, I am in my reality and I am welcoming her into my reality. I see it as a sensual dance (expressing what I feel is the most important part of fore-play and it never is limited to bedroom) and I am leading her all the way holding her hand. I am involved with her and I am felling what she is expressing as well.

All the tactics described in the GAME are not bad but I look onto them as the experiences of the particular individuals on their road to growth. All the people mentioned in the GAME have moved on to bigger and better things and I think that is the message. A true pickup-artist (or as I like to say LOVER) will never die because he can just walk into any situation and have a great conversation with anyone – not just a pretty woman – but even with an 80 year old and leave them with higher energy and enthusiasm than they were before they met him. That is the essence of charisma and if I have that I can be put in any situation, I can have a great time and people will love to hang around me. I may not be the pimp in the room with 20 hotties hangin\’ off my arms, but I will be the one with whom people would genuinely love to connect and women will geuninely love to be open without any head games. I will be the one who will leave them with memories that will bring smile to their faces and whose fragrance will turn them on even months and years later :)

Just my two cents.

Palwinder :)

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